Chrisitian *** Before Marriage?

Sorcha O asked:


My boyfriend and I are christians. We are new Christians as he has been a Chrisitian for 4 years and I since Febuary 09. We have had ***. I had *** before I met him but that was with only one guy. He was a virgin before he met me and had never had a gf. I did not pressure him into it and he didnt pressure me into it. We know we are going to be together for the rest of our lives because we believe we are meant to be. I love him so much and he loves me so much as well.

What is everyone’s views on this?

Please dont judge me. You can have an opinion but don’t say I am going to hell because of this.

Nathaniel

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6 Responses to “Chrisitian *** Before Marriage?”

  1. Cameron Says:

    Alyssa

    I think that its fine as long as u love each other

  2. Andrew Says:

    Gabriella

    on may opinion you have done something wrong

  3. Taylor Says:

    Diego

    Well, *** is, or its s’posed to be, very VERY special.
    a friend is in a similar situation, i think. I personally don’t want to have *** (ANY type, anal, oral, touching..) but if you TRULY and one hundred percent think you’ll be together forever, then it isn’t as bad in my book.

  4. Jeremiah Says:

    Lauren

    Having *** is lots of benefits (No, I am not going into the fun part) if you are planning to spend your life together. You have to know him before commititng fo long term.

  5. Aaron Says:

    Lucas

    personally i don’t think *** before marriage is a huge sin. what is a sin is doing it out of love. saying i hit that or yum look at him when he bends over. or not loving someone it even says in the bible that a woman s chest is like a lamb.

    sex is a gift god gave as we should not take advantage of it. god gave us that gift to give to someone we love. so are you in lust or in love.

    ask yourself this what can he give you no other guy can give you? if you can anwser this than it is love.

    no sin is greater than any other sin except *******. everyone sins we should not judge what sin is worse than any other. how we judge people here on earth; is how god well judge us in heavn.

  6. Lillian Says:

    Adam

    We have all sinned and we are all sinners.

    Once we become born again our mission
    is to become Christ-like and try to live our
    lives as perfectly as we can as God intended.

    The only thing you need to do now is try not
    to sin no more and get married. Remember
    God is our ultimate judge so don’t let any
    human being put you down. So don’t worry
    and carry on in Jesus.

    **Oh and by the way no one know who is
    going to hell – we can only say that all
    unrepentant sinners will – so again don’t
    worry.**

    God bless! :)

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